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Why We Want Things We Don’t Need?
Article Bushra Fatima
Article Bushra Fatima
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Do you ever think that why we are always in want
of things we actually don’t need?like if we “need” to eat in order to live. But what to eat leans toward “want” if we desire for pizza inspite of the food available in home that’s a want . If someone wants a car for a daily convience what gets them in trouble is the “type” of the car they want. We can ultimately satisfy our needs neither wants. And those things ultimately turns up into our needs, because we think that we can’t survive without having that stuff or not having that thing would make our standards lower. Desires are limitless we can’t ever fulfill one’s desires because wants are boundless.
Science says that 98% of people die without fulfilling their dreams. Matt valentine has given a brief description on it, in his book “How To Follow Your Heart and Live Your Personal Legend”.
In Pakistan people are busy competing each other they are busy in thinking what other people have and what they haven’t. As we can see the Pakistani weddings these days,it’s a clear picture of competition Parents are bound to give their daughters a complete dowry and a lavish wedding events parents are spending a high budget or it would not be wrong if I say that, they are spending their whole of the savings on weddings nowadays just to make the society satisfy, just to make their psyche satisfy and just to make their wants satisfy .Although 70% of the families in Pakistan cannot afford such expenses but inspite of that they are doing so, just because it’s a part of a marriage these days, but its not the Pakistani culture we are adapting other’s culture these events are not an obligations for muslims or Pakistanis its not a part of our culture but we have made it a part of culture and that’s getting a root cause for most of the Pakistani families depression. Nobody is stepping forward to make these stereotypes stop now.
Unlimited wants and needs, means people never get enough of what they have. There is always something else that they would like to have.
We have to keep a thing in mind that its not necessary to heir a couple of photographers one can be enough though, there’s no need to put down a bundle of food items, no need to put on the overpriced dresses, no need to heir an event manager. If we once think about these things wisely we will get to know that these traditions or conventions doesn’t actually make any sense.
Why we are getting our selves troubled? if we can do the same thing simply. Wedding is not a thing to worry about it’s a beautiful ritual and we can make it happen while keeping it simple and to be very honest, if one would take a step forward then many of the issues can be resolved.
But as we have increased the wants of unnecessities in our lives, variety of issues are having birth. We should focus on things which are necessary to do rather than thinking of what other people do.
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Why We Want Things We Don’t Need?
Bushra Fatima
Do you ever think that why we are always in want of things
we actually don’t need?
like if we “need” to eat in order to live. But what to eat leans toward “want” if we desire for pizza inspite of the food available in home that’s a want . If someone wants a car for a daily convience what gets them in trouble is the “type” of the car they want. We can ultimately satisfy our needs neither wants. And those things ultimately turns up into our needs, because we think that we can’t survive without having that stuff or not having that thing would make our standards lower. Desires are limitless we can’t ever fulfill one’s desires because wants are boundless.
In a recent report of “92 news channel” it has reported that 1500 of Pakistan youth population is involve in criminal activities and have submitted to jail in account of those crimes.
Science says that 98% of people die without fulfilling their dreams, that is leaning almost all of us to depression.
In Pakistan people are busy competing each other they are busy in thinking what other people have and what they haven’t. As we can see the Pakistani weddings these days,it’s a clear picture of competition Parents are bound to give their daughters a complete dowry and a lavish wedding events parents are spending a high budget or it would not be wrong if I say that, they are spending their whole of the savings on weddings nowadays just to make the society satisfy, just to make their psyche satisfy and just to make their wants satisfy .Although 70% of the families in Pakistan cannot afford such expenses but inspite of that they are doing so, just because it’s a part of a marriage these days, but its not the Pakistani culture we are adapting other’s culture these events are not an obligations for muslims or Pakistanis its not a part of our culture but we have made it a part of culture and that’s getting a root cause for most of the Pakistani families depression. Nobody is stepping forward to make these stereotypes break now, other than our celebrities who are the actual role models for our youth nowadays, and we are having plenty of examples for that! As Hamza Ali Abbasi and Naimal Khawar
Yasir Hussain and Iqra Aziz they are the recent examples for arranging simple wedding festive to set the new trend for people of Pakistan, to make them know that this is the more money saving yet the more sensible way to get married.
Unlimited wants and needs, means people never get enough of what they have. There is always something else that they would like to have.
We have to keep a thing in mind that its not necessary to heir a couple of photographers one can be enough though, there’s no need to put down a bundle of food items, no need to put on the overpriced dresses, no need to heir an event manager. If we once think about these things wisely we will get to know that these traditions or conventions doesn’t actually make any sense.
Why we are getting our selves troubled? if we can do the same thing simply. Wedding is not a thing to worry about it’s a beautiful ritual and we can make it happen while keeping it simple.
But as we have increased the wants of unnecessities in our lives, variety of issues are having birth. We should focus on things, are necessary to do rather than thinking of what other people do.
wrong file name , revised is not mentioned , last warning will not consider that next time.like if we “need” to eat in order to live. But what to eat leans toward “want” if we desire for pizza inspite of the food available in home that’s a want . If someone wants a car for a daily convience what gets them in trouble is the “type” of the car they want. We can ultimately satisfy our needs neither wants. And those things ultimately turns up into our needs, because we think that we can’t survive without having that stuff or not having that thing would make our standards lower. Desires are limitless we can’t ever fulfill one’s desires because wants are boundless.
In a recent report of “92 news channel” it has reported that 1500 of Pakistan youth population is involve in criminal activities and have submitted to jail in account of those crimes.
Science says that 98% of people die without fulfilling their dreams, that is leaning almost all of us to depression.
In Pakistan people are busy competing each other they are busy in thinking what other people have and what they haven’t. As we can see the Pakistani weddings these days,it’s a clear picture of competition Parents are bound to give their daughters a complete dowry and a lavish wedding events parents are spending a high budget or it would not be wrong if I say that, they are spending their whole of the savings on weddings nowadays just to make the society satisfy, just to make their psyche satisfy and just to make their wants satisfy .Although 70% of the families in Pakistan cannot afford such expenses but inspite of that they are doing so, just because it’s a part of a marriage these days, but its not the Pakistani culture we are adapting other’s culture these events are not an obligations for muslims or Pakistanis its not a part of our culture but we have made it a part of culture and that’s getting a root cause for most of the Pakistani families depression. Nobody is stepping forward to make these stereotypes break now, other than our celebrities who are the actual role models for our youth nowadays, and we are having plenty of examples for that! As Hamza Ali Abbasi and Naimal Khawar
Yasir Hussain and Iqra Aziz they are the recent examples for arranging simple wedding festive to set the new trend for people of Pakistan, to make them know that this is the more money saving yet the more sensible way to get married.
Unlimited wants and needs, means people never get enough of what they have. There is always something else that they would like to have.
We have to keep a thing in mind that its not necessary to heir a couple of photographers one can be enough though, there’s no need to put down a bundle of food items, no need to put on the overpriced dresses, no need to heir an event manager. If we once think about these things wisely we will get to know that these traditions or conventions doesn’t actually make any sense.
Why we are getting our selves troubled? if we can do the same thing simply. Wedding is not a thing to worry about it’s a beautiful ritual and we can make it happen while keeping it simple.
But as we have increased the wants of unnecessities in our lives, variety of issues are having birth. We should focus on things, are necessary to do rather than thinking of what other people do.
Why We Want Things We Don’t Need?
Bushra Fatima
Do you ever think that why we are always in want of things
we actually don’t need?
like if we “need” to eat in order to live. But what to eat leans toward “want” if we desire for pizza inspite of the food available in home that’s a want . If someone wants a car for a daily convience what gets them in trouble is the “type” of the car they want. We can ultimately satisfy our needs neither wants. And those things ultimately turns up into our needs, because we think that we can’t survive without having that stuff or not having that thing would make our standards lower. Desires are limitless we can’t ever fulfill one’s desires because wants are boundless.
Science says that 98% of people die without fulfilling their dreams. Matt valentine has given a brief description on it, in his book “How To Follow Your Heart and Live Your Personal Legend”.
In Pakistan people are busy competing each other they are busy in thinking what other people have and what they haven’t. As we can see the Pakistani weddings these days,it’s a clear picture of competition Parents are bound to give their daughters a complete dowry and a lavish wedding events parents are spending a high budget or it would not be wrong if I say that, they are spending their whole of the savings on weddings nowadays just to make the society satisfy, just to make their psyche satisfy and just to make their wants satisfy .Although 70% of the families in Pakistan cannot afford such expenses but inspite of that they are doing so, just because it’s a part of a marriage these days, but its not the Pakistani culture we are adapting other’s culture these events are not an obligations for muslims or Pakistanis its not a part of our culture but we have made it a part of culture and that’s getting a root cause for most of the Pakistani families depression. Nobody is stepping forward to make these stereotypes stop now.
Unlimited wants and needs, means people never get enough of what they have. There is always something else that they would like to have.
We have to keep a thing in mind that its not necessary to heir a couple of photographers one can be enough though, there’s no need to put down a bundle of food items, no need to put on the overpriced dresses, no need to heir an event manager. If we once think about these things wisely we will get to know that these traditions or conventions doesn’t actually make any sense.
Why we are getting our selves troubled? if we can do the same thing simply. Wedding is not a thing to worry about it’s a beautiful ritual and we can make it happen while keeping it simple and to be very honest, if one would take a step forward then many of the issues can be resolved.
But as we have increased the wants of unnecessities in our lives, variety of issues are having birth. We should focus on things which are necessary to do rather than thinking of what other people do.
like if we “need” to eat in order to live. But what to eat leans toward “want” if we desire for pizza inspite of the food available in home that’s a want . If someone wants a car for a daily convience what gets them in trouble is the “type” of the car they want. We can ultimately satisfy our needs neither wants. And those things ultimately turns up into our needs, because we think that we can’t survive without having that stuff or not having that thing would make our standards lower. Desires are limitless we can’t ever fulfill one’s desires because wants are boundless.
Science says that 98% of people die without fulfilling their dreams. Matt valentine has given a brief description on it, in his book “How To Follow Your Heart and Live Your Personal Legend”.
In Pakistan people are busy competing each other they are busy in thinking what other people have and what they haven’t. As we can see the Pakistani weddings these days,it’s a clear picture of competition Parents are bound to give their daughters a complete dowry and a lavish wedding events parents are spending a high budget or it would not be wrong if I say that, they are spending their whole of the savings on weddings nowadays just to make the society satisfy, just to make their psyche satisfy and just to make their wants satisfy .Although 70% of the families in Pakistan cannot afford such expenses but inspite of that they are doing so, just because it’s a part of a marriage these days, but its not the Pakistani culture we are adapting other’s culture these events are not an obligations for muslims or Pakistanis its not a part of our culture but we have made it a part of culture and that’s getting a root cause for most of the Pakistani families depression. Nobody is stepping forward to make these stereotypes stop now.
Unlimited wants and needs, means people never get enough of what they have. There is always something else that they would like to have.
We have to keep a thing in mind that its not necessary to heir a couple of photographers one can be enough though, there’s no need to put down a bundle of food items, no need to put on the overpriced dresses, no need to heir an event manager. If we once think about these things wisely we will get to know that these traditions or conventions doesn’t actually make any sense.
Why we are getting our selves troubled? if we can do the same thing simply. Wedding is not a thing to worry about it’s a beautiful ritual and we can make it happen while keeping it simple and to be very honest, if one would take a step forward then many of the issues can be resolved.
But as we have increased the wants of unnecessities in our lives, variety of issues are having birth. We should focus on things which are necessary to do rather than thinking of what other people do.
It is too general, nothing is current, relevant, otherwise it is essay type.
Some Pakistani reference examples, data
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Why We Want Things We Don’t Need?
Bushra Fatima
Do you ever think that why we are always in want of things
we actually don’t need?
For example we “need” to eat in order to live. But what to eat leans toward
“want” if we desire for pizza inspite of the food available in home that’s a
want . If someone wants a car for a daily convience what gets them in trouble
is the “type” of the car they want. We can ultimately satisfy our needs neither
wants. And those things ultimately turns up into our needs, because we think
that we can’t survive without having that stuff or not having that thing would
make our standards lower. Desires are limitless we can’t ever fulfill one’s desires
because wants are boundless.
Science says that 98% of people die without fulfilling their dreams. Matt
valentine has given a brief description on it in his book “How To Follow Your
Heart and Live Your Personal Legend”.
In Pakistan people are busy competing each other they are busy in thinking what
other people have and what they haven’t, rather than thinking do they need that
or just want that thing? This particular thought of not having their wants
attained the whole of the families are being frustrating they are having
behavioral changes, tantrums issue and making their lives 10 times harder than
it is in real. In most of the Pakistani families the number of person who earns
is 1 and if his wage is just enough to make a hand to mouth system in his house
then what would he do to satisfy his family’s wants ? He will definitely get
himself in trouble and will get another job or extend his office hours. That is
the time when the family gets disturbed children are not getting the time they
deserve and the wife may get a job too so they can admit their children in a
top school give them all the gadets they want without thinking whether its good
or bad for their kids or is their kids are young enough to have this stuff? NO
parents now a days don’t think about what their kids needs but what their kids
wants so that they can fit into the society.
I went through a real life story of a happily married couple and they ended breaking
up just because of the girl’s never ending demands. She belonged to a middle
class family and was dreaming to attain all her aspirations come true after
marriage instead of knowing that her life partner which she had decided to
marry herself was not rich enough to meet her demands. She never thought
maturely that her husband is comforting her with fulfilling all her needs and sometimes wants
too but inspite of that she was being frustrating in wanting more and more
because she always looks at the upper class of the society she always asked her
husband to get her a new designer dress in every other wedding, traveling
plans, gym membership, expensive outings twice in a week without realizing that her ocean of wishes is
drowning his married life in trouble and in result of that they once broke up
just because she said: My husband is not satisfying my wants!
Unlimited wants and needs, means people never get enough of what they
have.There is always something else that they would like to have.
As we have increased the wants of unnecessities in our lives, variety of issues
are taking birth.We should focus on things we have rather than thinking of what
we don’t have. The day when we start counting the blessings of our lives it would be very easy to live happily with
what you are given with.
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